What Type of Person Does Well
'Living Abroad' in Foreign Cultures?
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How Our Culture Forms Us
Culture is the "lens" through which we view the world. It consists of the beliefs, values, expectations, attitudes and behavioral assumptions appropriate to members of a particular culture.
It becomes central to their world-view, how they make sense of what they see, and how they express themselves.
When living abroad, it's the perceived deviation by other cultures, from our version of 'normality', that causes the problems in adapting.
Our cultural programming, also called socialization, is a learned behavior that shapes everything we see, touch, interact with or think about. Most importantly it helps us to decide what is 'normal' in our eyes.
This makes it easier for the individuals of a culture to know how to behave. They learn the accepted moral norms, social roles, language and symbols associated with their culture.
The major institutions of socialization in a culture are the family and the school system. Members of the culture reinforce the cultural programming they have received by accepting and practicing it, and ostracizing those who do not follow the accepted norms.
It is the perceived deviation by other cultures from one's own version of 'normality', that causes the problems, when people move around between cultures.
The Phenomenon of Third Culture Kids
When children are raised across cultures, attending schools that socialize them in different cultures, they come into contact with different value systems, different norms and different behavioral expectations.
As a result, their socialization may take on an eclectic nature. And they may not feel like they really belong to any particular culture. In a way, they develop their own culture. They have become Citizens of the world.
This phenomenon is so widespread, that these kids are placed in a category all their own, called "Third Culture Kids". They have an ability to adjust and adapt across cultures,
that makes them extremely flexible, and therefore suitable to working and living in foreign cultures. Some of the traits they are known for are listed below.
7 Personal Success Traits for Expats to Cultivate
Certain personal characteristics help us to effectively manage cross-cultural differences when living abroad. Do you have these traits? If not, how can you develop or enhance these personal traits?
Adjusting to Change
Do you thrive on change, love a good challenge, are street smart, have a sense of adventure, and an insatiable curiosity about everything? Chances are, you'll be energized and stimulated by an 'international experience'.
Change is a constant in a new culture. If you easily get upset when your routine is interrupted at home, you may find it too uncomfortable to embrace a new culture.
Those who spend time living abroad need to be flexible, open minded and receptive to new ways of doing things, new ideas, new values and customs, without having to convince others to switch to their ways of behaving, thinking and acting.
Emotional Stability
Are you emotionally stable, self-reliant, able to deal with stress, tolerant of ambiguity - especially to perceived deviations from the norm in your home culture?
One aspect of this is being self-sufficient, not needing to rely on anyone else. Or being able to quickly find people you can connect with when you need help.
Intuitive Awareness & Cultural Sensitivity
Are you 'street smart'? Being aware of the dangers in your immediate surroundings, and being able to react quickly to protect yourself, to make split-second decisions when necessary, takes a person who is instinctually in tune with themselves, and their surroundings no matter where they go.
They are calm, patient, persistent, tactful, able to negotiate skillfully in a new environment, especially when living abroad in a different culture. This requires an intuitive cultural awareness and sensitivity, which can be learned through taking cultural sensitivity courses.
Inner Resilience
Do you have a sense of humour, a positive self-image, and self-confidence? Having a sense of humour is invaluable. It will help you adapt in the most difficult circumstances, while living abroad, because you'll be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously.
People who develop this trait generally have an independent nature, and have cultivated resourcefulness, and versatility in approaching any project. It's second nature to you to build your own contact network, problem solve using your creativity, and to improvise when necessary
Communication Skills
Are you interested in learning other languages? Are you aware of non-verbal communication skills, such as body language and facial expressions? Manner of dress and etiquette are another part of this unspoken language.
People Skills
You have people skills, can remain calm in conflicting situations, good writing skills, able to comprehend and understand with verbal facility in a new language.
You are a good listener, able to stand back, observe without judging, and adjust your behaviour according to the situation.
The best way to learn about the culture is to observe others, ask tactful questions of your hosts, and listen carefully to what they say. This is the key to successful intercultural communication.
These personal adaptability traits can be cultivated, and the coping skills can be learned.
Resourcefulness on the Job
The following skills can serve you in most work situations: bookkeeping and accounting, the art of negotiation, conflict mediation, and of course your computer skills?
Do you know how to take inventory and order supplies? What do you know about interviewing and hiring people to work for you? Training, motivating and supervising employees, are all part of running an office or what is termed "office or project management".
How persistent are you? Or do you tend to give up when things go wrong? How good are you at repairing things, making do, recycling and reusing old equipment?
If you are the kind of person who is never deterred, can't take "No" for an answer, and believes 'where there's a will, there's always a way', you have what it takes to make a very successful adjustment overseas.
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